Further case notes on alternate life-style matters

In my previous blog on "Case notes from clients who are homosexuals", I mentioned about my stand of not endorsing the life-style of a homosexual. This has caused some unhappiness amongst the affected parties. Therefore, i would like to clarify further.

First, let me explain that me being not endorsing such a life-style does not mean that I will go for a "witch hunting" exercise to decimate the affected parties. In fact, the opposite is true. I engage them sincerely. Today, I have good friends(and clients) who are homosexuals.

Let me share further on the inner thoughts of this group of people from my case notes.

1. Ms. ABC. A lesbian in her 30s, with 2 daughters and a live-in partner. I asked her why? She tells me she has been play-out by her ex-husband(who just walk out on her(and 2 children) and disappear). That incident has caused her to lose trust in man, and she beginning to take on the "man" role to provide for the children and herself. And it gradually develops into the current situation.

2. Mr. DEF. A gay in his 40s. I asked him why? He tells me that when he was a boy, he was sexually abused by his uncle. And ever since, the bitterness and shame has been residing within him. That incident was the beginning of his homosexual behaviour.

There are many other observations documented in my file, and I do find one common trend: that there is usually one incident that was so bad or deadly that caused a complete shift in the sexuality from normal. The cause of this is usually a very evil ill caused by another person, which i interpret as a dark force to break down a family unit. Through my observation in the history of men, from the city of Sodom to the Roman & Chinese empires, the prelude of a down fall of a country or people is the break down of a family unit. It is on this basis that I don't endorse such alternate life-style.